Aap ka sawaal buhat ahem hai, Rashida jee. Bari umar mein tanhaai, sehat ke masail, aur bachon ka door hona stress ki wajah ban sakta hai, aur aap akeli nahi hain jo aisa mehsoos karti hain.
Yeh bilkul mumkin hai ke is umar mein bhi insaan ko stress ho, aur iska ehsaas hona pehla qadam hai. Zindagi mein tabdeelian, bachon ka door hona, aur sehat ke masail kisi ko bhi pareshan kar sakte hain, aur yeh koi kamzori nahi.
Jab bachay door hon aur ghar khali lagne lage, toh tanhaai ka ehsaas dil ko udaas kar deta hai. Koshish karein ke apne neighborhood mein kisi purane rishtedar ya humsaye se mil jul badha lein. Ek cup chai par baithna ya dil ki baat karna bhi bojh halka kar sakta hai. Yaad rakhein, logon se milna julna kisi ki madad ki bheek mangna nahi, balkay apnay dil ko khush rakhna hai.
Sehat ke masail aur dil na lagna bhi stress ki alamat ho sakti hai. Apni pasand ki koi choti si cheez dobara shuru karein, jaise ke bagiche mein halke phulke kaam, quran ki tilawat ya apni pasand ki kitaab parhna, ya purane gaane sunna. Choti choti khushiyan dhundhna bhi dil ko sukoon de sakta hai.
Bache agar door hain toh unse phone par ya video call par rozana baat karne ki koshish karein. Unhe apne din ke bare mein batayein aur unke din ke bare mein bhi poochhen. Agar woh mulakat ke liye nahi aa sakte toh unse guzare waqt ki purani yaadein taaza karein, isse rishta mazboot rehta hai.
Apni zindagi mein ek mamool banana bhi madadgar ho sakta hai. Subah uth kar namaz parhna, phir halki phulki sair (agar sehat ijazat de), aur phir din ka koi ek kaam mukarrar karna. Apni sehat ka khayal rakhna bhi buhat zaroori hai, taake aap khud ko mazboot mehsoos kar sakein.
Sab se ahem baat, apne aap par narmi karein. Yeh ehsaas ke aap akeli nahi hain, buhat madadgar ho sakta hai. Jab dil bojh se bhar jaye toh doosron se baat karna ya dua karna, dono hi dil ko halka karte hain. Yaad rakhiye, aap ki khushi aur sehat buhat qeemti hai.
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