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Aapki maa ke liye aapka pyaar aur aapki fikar, dono haqeeqat hain. Yeh dar aapki kamzori nahi, balke aapki mohabbat ka hissa hai — lekin jab yeh fikar roz ke kaam mein rakhawat ban jaye, to isko theek karna zaroori hai. Sab se pehle yeh samajh lein ke mustaqbil ke baare mein sochna kisi ko bhi pareshan kar sakta hai, aur aap akeli nahi hain is dar mein.
Mustaqbil ka khayal aksar humein aaj ka waqt khane lagta hai. Aapki maa ko abhi aapki maujoodgi chahiye, aapka sakoon chahiye — aaj ka pyaar chahiye. Agar aap kal ke soch mein kho jaayengi, to aaj ka chehra bhi nahi dekh payengi. Ek waqt mein ek hi din ka sochiye, aur us din ko acchi tarah jeeye.
Jo insaan doosron ka khayal rakhta hai, usko sab se zyada khud ki dekh-bhaal ki zaroorat hoti hai. Jab aap thaki hoti hain, aapki maa bhi isko mehsoos karti hain. Sab se zaroori cheez yeh hai ke aap apni zaati zarooraton ko bhool kar khud ko khatam na karein. Agar aap khud theek hongi, to aap unki behtar khayal kar sakti hain. Apne liye waqt nikalna aur thora aaram karna koi gunah nahi, yeh mohabbat ka hissa hai. Aap jo kar rahi hain wo bahut bada kaam hai, isko aasan nahi samjhiye — aur isi liye apna khayal rakhna zaroori hai, taake aap unke saath aur lambe waqt tak khush rah saken.
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