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Khat likhne se pehle, aap ek baar apne aap se poochh sakti hain: agar koi jawab nahi aata to aap kya karain gi? Agar wo bura maan jayein ya aur door ho jayein, to aap ready hain? Kabhi kabhi behtar hota hai ke khat likhein lekin bhejein nahi. Wo likh kar apne dil ki baat nikaal dena bhi aapko sukoon de sakta hai. Phir agar bhejna ho, to din guzar lene ke baad sochiye — kyunki gussa utarne ke baad faisla zyada sahi hota hai.
Aap ki dar ki wajah shayad yeh hai ke aap jaanti hain ke rishtey kachche ho sakte hain. To aap apni izzat aur sukoon ka khayal rakhein. Agar khat bhejne se aapka bojh halka ho jaaye, aur aap tayar hain nateeja lekar, to bhej sakti hain. Lekin agar is se aur takleef ho sakti hai, to rukna behtar hai. Zara se baat karein, wo aap ki baat sun legi, agar kisi aur ko batana mushkil ho raha ho.
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