Jab mahine ke aakhir mein paise khatam ho jate hain, to nakaami ka ehsaas hona aur zehni dabao mehsoos karna aam baat hai. Yeh page maali mushkilat aur depression ke gehre rishte ko samjhega aur in halaat mein khud ko sambhalne ke tareeqe batayega.
Ji haan, bilkul. Paise ki pareshani aur maaloomati dabao (financial stress) ka hamari zehni sehat par bohot gehra asar hota hai. Jab har mahine ke aakhir mein paise khatam ho jate hain aur aapko apni zaruriyat poori karne ki fikar lagi rehti hai, toh yeh ehsaas ke aap nakaam ho rahe hain, ya aapke paas control nahi hai, bohot takleef-deh ho sakta hai. Yeh lagatar fikar aur bojh waqai mein depression jaisi kefiyat paida kar sakta hai.
Yeh sirf aapki baat nahi, many people is tarah ki pareshani ka saamna karte hain. Jab aapko har waqt paison ka khayal rehta hai, toh aapki neend, bhook, aur roz marra ke kaam karne ki salahiyat par asar par sakta hai. Aapko mayoosi, chirchirapan, aur be-maqsad mehsoos ho sakta hai. Pakistan mein jahan family expectations aur 'log kya kahenge' ka darr bhi hota hai, wahan yeh dabao aur barh jata hai.
Is mushkil waqt mein, sab se pehle yeh samjhna zaroori hai ke aap akele nahi hain aur yeh ehsaas bilkul haqeeqi hain. Ek chota sa qadam yeh ho sakta hai ke aap apne kharchon ko samajhne ki koshish karein. Ek diary mein likh lein ke aapke paise kahan ja rahe hain. Is se aapko thora control mehsoos hoga aur aap dekh sakte hain ke kahan bachat ki gunjaish hai. Ho sakta hai ke aap kisi bharosemand dost ya rishtedar se baat kar sakein jo aapki baat sun sake, chahe woh paise ke masle hal na bhi kar sake, sirf sunna hi bojh halka kar deta hai.
Apne aap par narmi rakhein aur yaad rakhiye ke yeh mushkil waqt guzar jayega. Chhote chhote qadam utha kar aap is situation ko behtar banane ki koshish kar sakte hain. Zara bhi aapki baat sunne ke liye hamesha maujood hai.
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