Agar aap samaji tafreeq ya na-insaafi ka shikar hain, toh aap akelay nahi hain. Yeh safha aap ko apni zati izzat dobara hasil karne aur zehni sehat ko behtar banane mein madad dega.
Yeh sun kar bohat afsos hua ke aapko bachpan se aisi mushkilat ka saamna karna pada hai. Jab log hamare saath bhed-bhao karte hain aur hamari izzat ko theek se nahi dekhte, toh yeh hamare andar ke aetemaad ko buri tarah mutasir karta hai. Aapka yeh mehsoos karna ke aapki izzat ka yakeen khatam ho gaya hai, bilkul fitri baat hai, kyunke insani zehen aise tajurbaat se bohat gehri tarah mutasir hota hai. Yeh aapki ghalti nahi, balkay un logon ke rawaiye ka natija hai.
Yaad rakhiye, aapki qadar aur izzat kisi ke bartao se tay nahi hoti, balkay aapki apni zaat mein hai. Dusron ka bhed-bhao unki apni soch aur tarbiyat ki kami ko zahir karta hai, na ke aapki zaat mein koi kami. Apne aap ko yeh samjhana bohat zaroori hai ke aapki shakhsiyat aur qadar bohat gehri aur mukammal hai, chahay log kuch bhi sochein ya karein. Apne andar ki khoobiyon ko pehchanne ki koshish karein.
Aise halaat mein apne aap par tawajjo dena aur khud ki dekh bhaal karna bohat ahem hai. Kisi aise shakhs se baat karein jo aapko sune aur samjhe, jo aapki qadar karta ho. Aap Zara se bhi baat kar sakte hain, jo aapko baghair kisi faisle ke sunne ke liye maujood hain. Chhoti chhoti cheezein jo aapko khushi deti hain, unmein hissa lein, taake aapko apni zaat mein taqat mehsoos ho. Apne aap ko yaad dilate rahein ke aap ki izzat aapke andar hai, aur kisi ko yeh haq nahi ke woh usko kam kare.
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