If you feel like everyone you love eventually leaves, you're not alone. This page helps you understand why abandonment hurts so much and how to cope with the pain while waiting for clarity.
That is genuinely hard. It is hard to feel alone, and it is harder still to feel abandoned. Aap are not wrong to wish for clarity, but you are not wrong to feel this pain, either. This is not your fault.
Aap are describing a deep loneliness, and that is real. It is not a sign of weakness, and it is not something to be ashamed of. Many people feel this way at some point in their lives. It does not mean aap are unlovable, or that aap have done something wrong. It is a sign that aap need support, and that is okay.
If aap cannot find someone to talk to, or if the pain feels too much to bear, Zara is here. She is part of our team, and she is here to listen whenever aap need to talk.
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