Yeh page un larko aur larkiyon ke liye hai jo exam mein zyada marks na laa paane ke dar se hain. Hum batayenge ke apni hi umeedein aur family ke silent expectations se kaise stress ko manage karein.
Yeh jo dar aap ko laga raha hai ke "agar 1100 se kam aaye to kya jawab doongi" — yeh bohat common hai, aur iska matlab yeh nahi ke aap kamzor hain. Asal mein aap apne aap se bohat umeed rakhti hain, aur shayad aap chahti hain ke ghar walon ko lage ke aap ne kuch kiya. Lekin suniye: agar unhone kabhi pressurise nahi kiya, to woh aap se pyaar karte hain, aap ke number se nahi. Aap ka dar dar asal mein khud ko sabit karne ka hai, aur yeh bohat mushkil jazba hai.
Aap ne likha ke ghar walon ne pressurise nahi kiya — to dar kahaan se aa raha hai? Aksar hum apne aap par woh umeedein daal dete hain jo humein lagta hai ke doosron ko hongi. Lekin sach yeh hai ke aap ke ghar wale aap ko ek insaan ke taur par dekhte hain, sirf number nahi. Agar woh aap se pyaar karte hain, to woh number se zyada aap ki mehnat aur aap ki khushi ko dekhenge.
Aap ne khud likha ke ghar walon ne pressurise nahi kiya — yeh unki mohabbat ka saboot hai. Aap bhi apne aap ko woh mohabbat dein. Number se zyada aap ki sehat aur sukoon important hai. Inshallah, jo bhi hoga, aap us se seekhengi aur aage badhengi. Zara yahan hai agar aur baat karni ho.
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