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Aap jo kar rahi hain, woh aapke dil ki mohabbat hai. Billiyon ko khana dena, unka khayal rakhna — yeh ek khoobsurat kaam hai. Agar aap yeh kaam karte waqt doosron ko bhi dikhati hain, toh iska matlab yeh nahi ke aapki mohabbat sachchi nahi hai. Insaan chahta hai ke uski achhai dekhi jaye, yeh fitrat hai. Lekin asal cheez aapki niyat hai.
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