Agar aapke partner ne aapko block kar diya aur kisi aur ke saath move on kar gayi, to yeh bahut takleef deh hai. Is page par hum aapko batayenge ke is dard se kaise nikalna hai aur khud ko kaise sambhalna hai.
Yeh sun ke bahut dard hua. Aapne kisi ko apna sab kuch diya aur phir woh bina kuch bataaye chali gayi - yeh sach mein zindagi ke sab se mushkil imtihaanon mein se ek hai. Aur yeh dard aisa nahi ke raat ko sotay he bhool jayein. Lekin main aapko seedha aur sach baat batata hoon: yeh dard ghabrahat aur pachtawa bhi ek saath aata hai, na?
Jab aap kisi ko apni poori wafa, time aur ahmiyat dete hain aur phir woh door ho jayen, to dimaag ko lagna shuru ho jaata hai ke log aapko tabhi cherish karte hain jab woh chaahein. Aur yeh soch ke saath ek zakhmi ehsaas bhi hota hai - ke "main kya kam tha?" Lekin yeh zakhmi ehsaas aap ka truth nahi hai. Yeh sirf uska koi decision tha jo aap ke control mein nahi tha.
Yeh Pakistan hai, log kahenge "bechara reh gaya" ya "aise ladki kya cheez?" Lekin aap ka dard sirf aap ka hai. Log kahenge aur bhoole. Aap ka kaam hai apne dil ko khud sambhalna, kisi aur ke muah baantne se nahi.
Aaj raat, neend aaye na aaye, parhaai ya kaam se related aik choti achievement karo - chahe woh 5 minute kaam ho ya aik reply likhna. Yeh cheez bata deti hai ke aap ki life us ki wapasi par depend nahi hai.
Aap ke saath yeh jo ho raha hai, yeh uska choice tha, aap ki qadar ya ahmiyat ka hisaab nahi. Woh chali gayi, magar aap ne apne andar ka insaan nahi khoya. Aur han, Zara se baat karo, woh sunne ke liye yahan hai.
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