If you were sexually abused as a child, it can lead to hypersexuality and compulsive porn use. This page offers Islamic and psychological guidance to cleanse your mind and regain focus during prayers.
I was abused as a child and started watching porn at 14. Now I'm 17, I've managed to stay clean for a month, but my mind is still full of those images and thoughts, especially during prayers and studies. I need help to clean my mind and make sure I never go back to it.
Aap are doing the hardest part already: you have stopped watching and reading, and you are trying to repair the damage. That is genuinely hard, and it takes time. The thoughts will fade, but they will not disappear overnight. Be patient with yourself.
When you notice your mind wandering to those scenes, name what is happening out loud, in plain words: "This is my old habit, and I am letting it go." Say it firmly, like you mean it. If you are praying, pause, take a deep breath, and say it quietly. Then focus on what you are doing right now: the prayer, the task, the conversation. It will not hold your attention if you do not feed it.
Your brain is used to a certain kind of stimulation. When you feel the urge to watch, do something else instead that makes you feel good. This could be exercise, drawing, reading, or even a game. The goal is to replace the habit with something healthier. You might also try writing down your thoughts and feelings in a journal. It can help to get them out of your head and onto paper.
Many people struggle with thoughts like these, and a therapist can help you work through them in a safe and supportive environment. If cost is a concern, contact a mental health professional through our verified list at depression.pk/find-help. They can guide you through this process.
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