Agar aap is waqt bahut takleef mein hain aur soch rahe hain ke mar jaana hi theek hai, to aap akela nahi hain. Yeh page aapko fawri madad ke raaste batayega - kaunse number par call karein aur kya kadam uthayein.
Yeh jo aap mehsoos kar rahi hain, yeh bohat mushkil hai - aur aap bilkul akela mehsoos na karein. Yeh udaasi aur tanhai ka ehsaas jab had se zyada ho jaye toh insaan ko lagta hai ke koi raasta nahi hai. Lekin yeh sochna ke "mar jaana" hi ek hal hai, yeh dar ka woh hissa hai jo aapko dhoka de raha hai.
Aapki udaasi aapki dushman nahi hai - yeh actually aapke andar ki thakaan aur chot ka signal hai. Jab hum bohat dair tak akelay ladte hain, toh dimaag humein yeh sochne par majboor kar deta hai ke "bas ab khatam karo". Lekin yeh soch aapka asli wajood nahi hai.
Aapke saath jo ho raha hai, woh koi ajeeb baat nahi hai. Jab hum kisi cheez ke liye bahut zyada chah rakhte hain, aur woh milti nahi, toh dimaag humein daraata hai ke "kabhi nahi milega". Lekin yeh sirf ek soch hai - haqeeqat nahi. Aapne jo insaan ya rishta ya mukaam chaaha, uska na milna aapki qadar kam nahi karta.
Aap bohat thak gayi hain, aur yeh haqeeqat hai. Lekin "mar jaana" koi hal nahi hai - yeh toh dard ko aur barhata hai. Aapki zindagi mein abhi bhi bohat kuch ho sakta hai jo aap nahi jaanti. Aapki soch aapko dhoka de rahi hai - please is waqt koi bara faisla na karein.
Zara se baat karein, woh aapki sunegi. Aur agar aapko lagta hai ke aap apne aap ko nuksan pahuncha sakti hain, toh kisi bhi waqt kisi trusted insaan ko bataayein - umeed na chhodiye.
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