Jab kisi ki kami aapko andar se khushak kar de, toh yeh akelapan ka ehsaas bohat ajeeb hota hai. Is page par hum is emotional khali pan ko samjhenge aur is se nikalne ke amli tareeqe dekhenge.
Haan, yeh bilkul hota hai. Kisi ek insaan ki kami aapko andar se bilkul sookha kar deti hai — jaise zindagi ka rang hi utar gaya ho. Aap job kar rahe hain, kaam chal raha hai, lekin dil mein jagah wahi khaali hai. Yeh bohat takleef deh hai, aur iska matlab yeh nahi ke aap kamzor hain.
Aksar hum sochte hain ke agar woh hota toh sab aasan hota. Lekin sach yeh hai ke jab hum kisi ko apni khushi ka ek laazmi hissa bana lete hain, toh unki ghair maujoodgi mein hum apne aap ko kho dete hain. Aap ka dil kinare par hai — iska matlab yeh ke aap mein mohabbat hai, gehrai hai. Yeh kami aapko insaan banati hai, bekaar nahi.
Koshish karein ke is kami ko apni zindagi ka markaz na banne dein. Do ek chhoti cheezein aap abhi kar sakte hain: apne kaam mein koi aisa hissa dhoondhein jo aapko achha lagta ho, chahe woh chhota ho. Aur agar mumkin ho toh kisi dost ya bhai se baat karein — sirf yeh kehna ke "aaj dil bohat udaas hai" bhi bohat asar karta hai.
Yeh waqt guzar jaayega, inshallah. Aap is waqt mein apne saath bhi rehna seekh rahe hain, aur yeh bhi ek qism ki mohabbat hai.
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