Agar aap ka nikkah ho chuka hai lekin aap kisi aur se pyar karti hain aur walid beemar hain to yeh ek mushkil halat hai. Yeh page aap ko samjhayega ke is jazbaat ko kaise sambhalein aur apne ghar walon ke saath rishta bhi banae rakhein.
Yeh bilkul sahi hai ke aap bohot mushkil mein hain. Shadi ke baad kisi aur se mohabbat — aur upar se walid ki beemari — yeh akele kaafi bojh hai. Aap ka dil jaanta hai ke yeh raasta seedha nahi hai, aur aap is liye pareshan hain kyunke aap kisi ko thes nahi pahunchana chahti. Yeh sach mein mushkil hai.
Aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, usse dabaane se masla aur gehra hota hai. Apne aap se poochiye: yeh mohabbat shadi ke baad aayi ya pehle se thi? Kya yeh kisi kami ki wajah se hai ya kisi aur cheez ki? Kabhi kabhi hum kisi aur ko is liye chahte hain ke hum apni shadi mein woh cheez nahi paa rahe jo chahiye. Yeh sochne mein sharminda nahi hona chahiye — yeh insaani fikr hai.
Aap walid ko bata nahi sakti, aur shayad ghar mein kisi aur ko bhi nahi. Lekin aap ek therapist se baat kar sakti hain jo aapka raaz rakhega aur aapko faisla karne mein madad dega. Depression.pk par /find-help mein aap kisi se baat kar sakti hain. Yeh aapko koi raasta batayega nahi, balke aap ko khud apna raasta dekhne mein madad karega.
Mohabbat aur farz ke darmiyan jab hum hote hain, toh humein waqt chahiye. Aap apne shohar ke saath baat kar sakti hain agar mumkin ho, ya khud kuch waat lijiye. Yeh mat bhooliye ke aap ke walid ki beemari ka stress bhi aapke dil ki baat ko aur mushkil bana raha hai. Jab woh stress thoda kam ho, toh aap ka faisla aur saaf ho sakta hai.
Aap ke liye koi asaan jawab nahi hai. Lekin aap akeli nahi hain — bohot log isi tarah ke masle se guzarte hain. Agar kabhi baat karna chahiye, Zara yahan hai.
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