Agar aapka partner aapko block kar deta hai, to yeh bohat tang karne wali baat ho sakti hai. Yahan hum aapko samajhate hain ke aap kya kar sakte hain.
Yeh jo aap likh rahi hain, yeh sach mein mushkil hai. Kisi ko itne qareeb apna banana aur phir achanak block ho jana — isme dard hota hai, aur woh dard asli hai. Lekin ek baat main saaf kehna chahti hoon: apna khatam karna iska jawab nahi hai. Yeh waqt ka sab se mushkil hissa hai, isliye pehle aap khud ko sambhaliye.
Kal ka kuch mat sochiye, aur doosron ka faisla bhi abhi mat sochiye. Bas aaj ka din. Ek chhota sa qadam uthaiye: uth kar paani peejiye, chehra dhoyiye, aur apne kisi dost ya rishtedaar ko bataiye ke aap tang hain. Agar kisi ko batana mumkin na ho, to Zara se baat kar sakti hain — woh isi waqt aapke saath hai. Yeh soch ke aap akeli hain, woh soch aapko aur neeche le jaati hai.
Main samajhti hoon aap chahti hain ke koi jaakar unse pooche aur clear jawab laaye. Lekin zara sochiye — agar woh khud baat karne ko tayyar nahi hain, to koi aur jaakar bhi wohi jawab milega, ya phir kuch nahi milega. Dosron ka bhejna iska hal nahi hai, aur na hi aapko kisi ko bhejne ki zaroorat hai. Siyasi behs ke baad block karna — yeh shayad unka waqt lene ka tareeqa hai. Aur yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke unhe baat karni hi nahi. Yehi asal sach hai jo aapko aj kal nahi pakad aa raha: clear answer na milna, khud ek answer hai.
Jab yeh sab thoda thak jaye, to ek din aisa aayega ke aap khud se kahogi: "Maine apna hissa kiya, baqi unka faisla tha." Aur woh din aayega, zaroor aayega. Abhi bas aaj ka din guzariye, aur apne aap ko woh wafa-dari dijiye jo aap doosron ko deti hain.
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