Agar aap ke past mein koi shakhs aa gaya hai aur uski waju se aap panic aur anxiety mehsoos kar rahi hain, to yeh page aapki madad karega. Hum aapko batayenge ke is situation mein apne aap ko kaise sambhalein aur traumatic feelings se kaise nikalain.
Yeh sach mein mushkil hai, aur aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, woh bilkul samajh aa raha hai. Kisi ke sath koi aur dekhte hue, aur apne past ka koi wapas aakar aapki tension ko double karde, yeh bahut hi dardnaak ho sakta hai. Aap akeli nahi hain, lekin yeh ehsaas bahut haqeeqi lagta hai.
Pehla kaam: abhi aapko apni panik aur anxiety ko thoda control karna hai. Do one thing — apni saans par dhyan dijiye. Beet beet ke saans lo: chaar gun tak saans andar, char gun tak roko, phir char gun tak chhodo. Yeh dil ki dhadkan ko thoda kam karega. Agar aap chahein, to kisi cheez ko pakad len – thanda pani pi len, ya apne haathon ko aapas mein zor se maliye – jisse aap "present moment" mein wapas aaiye.
Jab panic thoda kam ho, toh sochiye: aapke trauma ka asal hissa kya hai? Yeh wohi purana rishta hai jo phir se zinda hua? Ya yeh aapka akelapan jo aapko darata hai? Aap is par likh sakti hain, ya Zara se baat karein. Hum yahan hain, koi faisla nahi lene, bas sunne ke liye.
Yeh bhi yaad rakhein: aap ki apni zindagi, aap ki apni values, aap ki apni tarakki — woh kisi aur ke saath nahi, balki aap ke saath hai. Jo shakhs aapke past mein tha, uska present aapki zaroorat nahi hai — aap apni zaroorat ke liye yahan ho. Agar uska aa ke rahe hai aur aapko panic ho rahi hai, toh yeh is baat ka nishaan hai ke kuch purani baat abhi puri nahi hui. Us ke liye aap professional se baat kar sakti hain (jaise depression.pk par find-help mein therapists hain), lekin abhi ke liye bas apne saath maujood rahein.
Aap zindagi mein zinda aur taaqatwar hain. Yeh waqt bhi guzar jayega, aur aap apni raah bana sakti hain. Zarurat ho toh humse baat karein.
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