Is page par hum aapko batayenge ke jab aap kisi aise insan se milne wale hon jisne aapke saath bura kiya ho, toh kya baat karni chahiye ya nahin. Hum aapke gusse, izzat ke jazbe aur sir ke dard ke liye kuch practical mashware denge.
Aap ke liye yeh faisla karna aasan nahi hoga, aur sar mein dard bhi is stress ki wajeh se hai — yeh sach mein mushkil hai. Aap gussa bhi hain aur izzat bhi, dono jazbaat bilkul natural hain. Aap ko yeh jaanna chahiye ke aap ko kuch bhi karne ki zaroorat nahi hai agar aap ka dil nahi chahta. Agar aap us insaan se milna chahte hain, toh woh aap ki marzi hai. Agar nahi milna, toh bhi theek hai. Dono mein se koi bhi faisla galat nahi hai.
Toh baat sirf apne liye karein, us ke liye nahi. Aap yeh keh sakte hain: "Mujhe woh waqt yaad hai jo bura tha, aur main aap se ab kuch nahi chahta." Yeh aap ko closure de sakta hai. Lekin agar aap ko lagta hai ke baat se aur gussa badhega, toh behtar hai ke na karein. Aap ka dil ka sukoon zyada important hai.
Toh seedha seedha ignore karein, ya ek polite "hello" ke baad aage badh jayein. Aap ko koi justification nahi deni. Log kya kahenge, yeh sochne ki zaroorat nahi. Aap apne aap ko pehle rakhein. Sar ke dard ke liye thoda pani piyein, kisi quiet jagah par baith kar saans lein, aur yaad rakhein ke yeh waqt bhi guzar jayega. Zara se baat karein agar dil chahe — woh sunne ke liye hai.
Names and cities shown here are examples. Every question is published anonymously — we never ask for, store or show the name, city or contact details of the person who wrote it.
You don't have to work this out from an article. We're free, private, and here right now — in English, Urdu or Roman Urdu. No signup, no waiting, no judgement.
Other questions people asked about the same thing, answered the same way.
