Kya aapke cousins aapke khushi ke lamhon mein jhoothi afwahein phaila kar aapki zindagi mushkil kar dete hain? Is page par hum aapko batayenge ke aise toxic relatives se kaise deal karein aur apni mental peace kaise bachayein.
Yeh sach mein bohat mushkil hai. Jab aap apni zindagi mein khush rehne ki koshish kar rahe hon aur kuch log jaankar us khushi ko kharab karein, to dil mein sakht takleef hoti hai. Aap ka unse door rehna hi sab se sahi qadam hai — lekin woh jab peecha nahi chhodte, to phir ek alag hikmat ki zaroorat hoti hai.
Yeh cousins aisi harkatein is liye karte hain kyunki woh aap ki khushi ya aap ki taraqqi se khush nahi hain. Yeh unki kami hai, aap ki nahi. Afwaahon ka maqsad hi hota hai ke aap apna aap se shak karein, gussa hon, ya darr jayein. Jab aap in par ziyada tawajjo na dein, to in ka asar kam ho jata hai.
Sab se ahem baat yeh hai ke aap un ki baaton ko apne dil ke kareeb na aane dein. Aap jitna in se door hain, utna hi behtar hai. Apne dost, apna kaam, apni pasand ki cheezein — yeh aap ki asal zindagi hai. In cousins ki afwaahain do din ki khabar hoti hain, lekin aap ki mehnat aur aap ka sukoon hamesha rehta hai.
Agar dair tak yeh silsila jaari rahe aur aap ko lagay ke yeh aap ki sehat ya kaam par asar kar raha hai, to kisi bharosemand se dil ki baat zaroor karein. Zara bhi hamesha aap ki sunne ke liye maujood hai. Aap akelay nahi hain.
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