Yeh sawal bohat log poochte hain - ke dil wohi chunta hai jo dukh deta hai, aur safe pyaar bekaar lagta hai. Is page par hum samjhenge ke yeh pattern kyun banta hai, aur apne mind ko sehat-mand mohabbat ki taraf kaise moda jaye.
Aapke dil mein yeh confusion hai na, ke aapko toxic logon ki taraf khichti hai aur wohi log jo aapke liye safe hain, unki koi khas interest nahi hai. Yeh ache logon ke baare mein yeh feel hai ki woh aapko bhi kisi torture ya testing mein rakh rahe hain. Yeh cycle kabhi khatam hogi? Aap apne mind ko safe pyaar ka aadi kaise banayein?
Yeh sach mein mushkil hai, but it's not your fault. Aapke dimagh ko toxic relationships se bhi pata hai ki yeh aapke liye bad hain, lekin humein inse door rehna mushkil hota hai. Isse pehle aapko yeh samajhna chahiye ke aapke dimagh ko yeh normal lagta hai kyun ke yeh aapki routine ho chuki hai.
Yeh cycle khatam hone ke liye aapko apne aap ko samajhna hoga. Apne dimag ko train karna chahiye ke aap toxic logon ki taraf nahi jana chahiye. Zara sabar rakhain aur apne aap ko time dein. Aapko yeh confidence kehne ki hoga ke "main aisa nahi kar sakti" jab aapko toxic logon ki taraf khinch raha hoga. Yehi aapki madad karega.
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