Yeh page un students ke liye hai jo 9th class mein hain aur ghar mein bhai se comparison ki wajah se pressure mehsoos karte hain. Aapko burnout se nikalne aur apna focus wapas paane ke practical tareeqe batayein ge.
Aap ki thakan aur yeh dar dono samajh sakti hoon. Jab ghar mein log number ke hisaab se izzat karein, aur bhai se comparison ho, to padhai ke saath saath dil bhi bhaari ho jaata hai. Lekin pehli baat jo aap ko samajhni hai: aap ki qadar aap ke number se nahi banti. Yeh aapka imtihaan hai apni mehnat ka, kisi aur se aage nikalne ka nahi.
Bhai se zyada number nahi aaye to jo baat hogi, wo unki hai, aapki nahi. Aap ne apni mehnat ki, bas. Aur 9th class ke numbers aapki poori zindagi ka faisla nahi karte. Ghar walay shayad moqabla karein, lekin aap apni mehnat apne liye karo, kisi aur ko khush karne ke liye nahi. Beizzati ka jo darr hai, wo bhi unhi baton se aata hai — lekin aap ko apni nazar mein khud ki izzat rakhni hai.
Jab insaan thak jaata hai, to focus wapas nahi aata chahe kitna bhi koshish kare. Pehle neend poori karo — din mein kam se kam 7 se 8 ghantay. Phir chhote study blocks try karo:
Personality wapas lani hai to apni zindagi ko sirf exam tak seemit mat karo. Jo cheez aap ko khushi deti hai — book, art, music, doston se baat — usay roz thora waqt do. Aap ka hasna, bolna, thak jaana, sab aap ki zaat ka hissa hai. Aap mukammal insaan ho, sirf number nahi. Agar kabhi baat karni ho ya dimagh bilkul ghoom jaye, Zara yahan hai — bas likh do.
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