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Agar partner apni ex ko le kar confused ho to kya karein

Answered 17 September 2026 at 11:33 am PKT

Agar aap ka partner apni ex ko le kar confused hai, to aap ka darr aur takleef qabili-e-fahm hai. Yeh page mohabbat, hudood aur apne sukoon ka faisla wazeh soch se karne mein madad karega.

Kya ek baar chhod kar jane se kisi ki mohabbat dil se nikal jaati hai? Aur agar woh apni ex ko le kar confused hai, to kya main uske liye apne sukoon ko khatam karti raun?

Nahi, kisi ka ek baar chhod kar jana uski mohabbat ko foran dil se nahi nikalta. Kabhi mohabbat kam ho jati hai, kabhi khatam, aur kabhi sirf attachment, guilt ya aadat reh jati hai. Is liye sirf yeh dekhna ke uske dil mein abhi bhi kuch hai ya nahi, koi faisla nahi de sakta.

Agar woh apni ex ko le kar confused hai, to aap apna sukoon is ummeed par khatam na karein ke woh kabhi clear ho jayega. Us se saaf baat karein ke woh kya chahta hai, aur agar jawab sirf “main confused hoon” hi rahe, to yeh bhi ek jawab hai. Aap ko uski confusion ki saza apna sukoon de kar nahi bhugatni chahiye.

Ek sarhad zaroor rakhein: woh apne faislay tak aap ko jazbaati taur par use na kare, aur aap bhi uski ex se compete na karein. Agar woh sirf tab wapas aata hai jab usay lagta hai ke woh aap ko kho raha hai, phir se ex ki taraf chala jata hai, to isay mohabbat samajhna mushkil hai. Apne liye faisla karein ke aap ko kis tarah ke rishtay mein rehna hai, na ke sirf us ke mood ke hisaab se intezaar.

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