Is page par hum aapke bete ke parhne se inkaar, school aur masjid mein mushkilat, aur aapke is jazbay ke mutabiq usay normal bachon ki tarah banana chahti hain, ke baare mein baat karenge. Hum aapko samjhenge ke is mamle mein kya karna sahi hai aur kis tarah apne bete ki madad kar sakti hain.
Mera beta padhna pasand nahi karta, aur usko school aur masjid dono jagah mein parhne mein mushkil hoti hai. Usne bachpan mein ek chot lagayi thi aur ab uska marf ka masla hai. Main isse normal baccho ki tarah banana chahti hoon, lekin kya main isse sahi tarike se guide kar sakti hoon?
Yeh sach mein mushkil hai, aur aapko bohot pareshani ho rahi hogi. Sabse pehle, aapko samajhna chahiye ke har bacha alag hota hai, aur uski apni apni speed hai. Aapke beta ke liye, yeh zyada mushkil ho sakta hai, lekin iska matlab yeh nahi ke wo normal nahi hai.
Madad ke liye log mil sakte hain
Special education teacher — ek aisa teacher jo special needs ke bachon ki madad karta hai. Wo aapke beta ki koi madad kar sakta hai.
Doctor — agar aapke beta ka marf ka masla bohot mushkil hai, toh doctor se mil kar ek acha rehabilitation program start kar sakte hain.
Counsellor — agar aapke beta ko school aur masjid mein tension hai, toh ek counsellor usse better ways bata sakta hai taake wo apni difficulties handle kar sake.
Ghar par kya karein?
Small steps — aapko usse bohot zyada pressure nahi dena chahiye. Chhoti chhoti cheezein seekhne do, aur usse encourage karein.
Positive reinforcement — jab bhi wo kuch achha karta hai, toh usse sarah karein. Yeh uski confidence badhayega.
Patience — yeh process time lega, lekin aapko sabar rakhna chahiye. Aapke beta ki kami ko samajhne ka time do.
Aapke beta ko apni abilities samajhne aur unse confident hone ka mauka do. Har bacha alag hota hai, aur uski apni kamiyaan hoti hain. Aapko sirf yeh yaad rakhna hai ke aap uske saath ho, aur usse sabar se samajhne ka mauka do. Inshallah, wo apni difficulties handle kar lega.
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