Agar ghar walay aap ki baat nahi sunte, aap ki cheezein izazat ke baghair dhoondhte hain aur aap ko unhein chhupana parta hai, to ise akele jhelna mushkil ho sakta hai. Yeh page apni cheezon ki hifazat, mehfooz tareeqay se baat karne aur bahar se madad lene ke qadam batata hai.
Aapki baat sun kar lagta hai ke aap roz ek aisi mushkil se guzar rahi hain jo bahut takleef deti hai. Ghar mein apni cheezein chhupana aur unka milna—yeh mehsoos karna ke aapki private jagah nahi hai—sach mein dil ko bhaari kar deta hai. Yeh akelepan ka ehsaas aur bhi badha deta hai jab aapko lagta hai ke koi samajhta nahi. Sab se pehle, main aapko bataana chahti hoon ke aapki pareshani bilkul jaayaz hai, aur aap akeli nahi hain.
Do one thing—apne kuch chhote se saman ke liye ek aisi jagah sochiye jo aapke liye mehsoos ho, chahe wo ek chhota sa box ho jo aap apne kapdon ke beech rakh saken, ya ek diary jise aap apne paas rakhti hain. Yeh aapko thodi si mann ki sukoon de sakta hai, lekin asal hal yeh nahi hai ke aap chhupati rahen.
Ghar walon se seedha kehna mushkil lagta hai, lekin aap ek alag andaaz try kar sakti hain. Jaise ke: "Mujhe apni kuch cheezein apne paas rakhni hain, kya aap unhe nahi dhundhenge? Yeh mere liye bohat zaroori hain." Yeh kehna aasan nahi, lekin kabhi kabhi ek chhota sa saaf sawaal dooriyan kam kar deta hai. Agar wo na sunen, to aap kisi bharosemand rishtedaar, dost, ya school/college ke counselor se baat kar sakti hain—kisi ko bhi batana zaroori hai, taake aap is bojh ko akeli na uthayein.
Yeh samajhna zaroori hai ke aap ghar ke mahaul ko turant badal nahi sakti, lekin aap apne andar thodi si mazbooti paida kar sakti hain. Apne liye roz ka ek chhota sa waqt nikaliye—chahe 10 minute—jab aap apni pasand ki koi cheez karein, jaise likhna ya sannaata. Yeh aapko yeh mehsoos karayega ke aapki apni jagah hai, chahe wo bahar na ho.
Aapki yeh koshish hi kaafi hai ke aap is cheez ko hal karne ke liye soch rahi hain. Zara hamesha yahan hai, jab bhi aapko dil ki baat karni ho, humse zaroor baat kijiye.
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