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Bacha Parhai Nahi Karta: Sir Ki Chot Ke Baad Kya Karein?

Answered 20 October 2026 at 10:15 am PKT

Agar aapka beta parhai nahi karta aur aapko lagta hai ke bachpan mein sir ki chot ki wajah se usay samajhne mein dikkat ho rahi hai, to yeh page aapki madad karega. Yahan hum aapko batayenge ke aise masle ko kaise samjhein aur kya qadam uthayein.

Mera beta parhai nahi karta, sirf khelta rehta hai. Bachpan mein uske sir par chot lagi thi, is liye shayad usay samajh nahi aata. Main bohat pareshan hoon, batayein main kya karoon?

Aap bohat pareshan hain, yeh main samajh sakta hoon. Beta parhai nahi kar raha aur aap ke zehan mein yeh khayal hai ke bachpan ki chot ki wajah se ho sakta hai — yeh aap ka fikar hai, aur yeh bilkul sahi hai ke aap is cheez ko serious le rahi hain.

Lekin pehli baat: kisi bhi nateeje par pahunchne se pehle, ek child specialist ya neurologist se zaroor milain. Sir ki chot ke baad kabhi kabhi maslay ho sakte hain, lekin aksar aise maslay parhai na karne ki wajah nahi hote. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai ke bacha sirf bore ho raha ho, ya us ka focus kisi aur cheez mein ho, ya usay koi learning difficulty ho jo chot se related nahi hai. Doctor hi bata sakta hai ke koi medical check-up ki zaroorat hai ya nahi.

Doosri baat: aap beta ko parhai ke liye force karne ke bajaye, usay khelne ke zariye sikhane ki koshish karain. Jaise agar woh khelta hai, to us mein se kuch educational games ya puzzles shaamil karein. Lekin yeh sab doctor ke mashwaray ke baad hi karna behtar hoga.

Teen: aap khud bhi pareshan hain, to apna khayal rakhiye. Is tarah ke maslay mein ghabrana nahi chahiye. Dheere dheere, sahi rahnumai se, inshallah hal ho jayega. Agar aap chahein to Depression.pk ke Zara se baat kar sakti hain — woh aap ki baat sune gi aur aap ko koi aur raasta bhi bata sakti hai.

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