Agar aap ko lagta hai ke aap zindagi ke har pehlu mein fail ho rahe hain aur apne aap ko kisi cheez ke laayak nahi samajhte, to yeh page aap ke liye hai. Yahan hum aap ki self-esteem ko behtar karne ke tareeqe aur apni qadar ko samajhne mein madad karenge.
Yeh sach mein bohot mushkil hai, aur aap akeli nahi hain jo aisa mehsoos kar rahi hain. Jab hum har cheez mein apni poori koshish karte hain aur phir bhi nakaami milti hai, toh dimaag yeh sochne lagta hai ke "main hi kharab hoon" — lekin yeh soch sach nahi hai, yeh bas aapka thaka hua zehan hai jo aapko galat fehmi de raha hai. Aap ki koshish ka matlab hai ke aap mein himmat hai, nakaami ka matlab yeh nahi ke aap laayak nahi.
Jab hum baar baar nakaam hote hain, toh dimaag ek pattern bana leta hai: har chhoti nakaami ko "main hi bure hoon" se jod deta hai. Yeh depression ki ek aam aadat hai — aap apne aap ko ek kaanch ki tarah dekhti hain jismein aik chhoti si darar poori cheez ko tod deti hai. Lekin sach yeh hai ke insaan kaanch nahi hota, hum mein aisi bohot si khusiyaan hoti hain jo nakaami se kabhi khatam nahi hoti.
Aap ka waqt aayega, inshallah. Aaj ka din mushkil hai, lekin kal ka din nahi. Aap ne itni himmat se likha hai, yeh bhi ek kaamyaabi hai.
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