Is safar mein doctor ke ilaj ka asar kab tak dikhega aur andhere ka waqt kitna lamba hota hai, yeh hum yahan samjhenge. Shadi ki tayari aur depression ka dabaav akele nahi sahna, aapke liye yeh rahnumai hai.
Aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, yeh bilkul samajh mein aata hai. Doctor ne kaha tha ke kuch hafton mein farq hoga, lekin jab aapko abhi bhi andhera lagta hai, toh aap sochti hain ke kya cheez ghalat hai? Aap tension na lain — dawa ka asar aksar 4-6 hafton mein poora hota hai, aur pehle hafton mein kabhi kabhi aapko koi badlav nahi lagta, ya kuch din acha lagta hai aur phir wapas wohi feel hota hai. Yeh normal hai. Iska matlab yeh nahi ke ilaaj kaam nahi kar raha.
Zaroorat hai ke aap doctor se dobara baat karein aur unhein batayein ke abhi tak koi farq nahi aaya. Woh dose adjust kar sakte hain ya kuch aur suggest kar sakte hain. Lekin apni marzi se dawa band na karein — achanak band karne se aur mushkil ho sakti hai. Dawa ka poora asar dekhne ke liye sabar chahiye, aur yeh aapki ghalti nahi hai. Kuch log pehle hafton mein thoda sa acha feel karte hain, kuch ko zyada waqt lagta hai.
Shadi paas hai aur aap normal zindagi jeena chahti hain — yeh bilkul samajh mein aata hai. Is waqt aap apne aap par zyada pressure na daalein. Ek kaam karein: ek trusted dost ya family member ko bata dein ke aap thodi madad chahti hain. Shadi ki tayariyon mein se woh kaam doosron ko de dein jo aapko zyada thakayein. Aur agar koi din aapko bahut bura lagta hai, toh aap apne aap ko allow karein ke bas araam karein. Yeh toh aapki apni zindagi hai, aur aapko khud ko pehle rakhne ki ijazat hai.
Aap akeli nahi hain. Bohot log isi tarah se guzarte hain aur theek hote hain. Inshallah, aap bhi theek ho jayengi. Agar kisi din aapko baat karni ho, toh Zara yahan hai — kabhi bhi aap humse baat kar sakti hain.
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