Ghazala ji, aap ne bohat himmat se apna masla hum se share kiya hai. Aap jo kuch bhi seh rahi hain, woh kisi bhi aurat ke liye qabool nahi hai aur aap is tarah ke salook ki haqdar nahi hain.
Aapka yeh sawal ke 'kab tak bardasht karun' bilkul jaiz hai. Yeh aapki ghalti nahi hai, aur aap ko yeh sab sehney ki zaroorat nahi hai. Koi bhi shakhs, chahe woh aapka shohar hi kyun na ho, aapki izzat na kare, bachon ke samne zaleel kare, aur haath uthaye, yeh bilkul bhi qabool nahi hai.
Hum samajhte hain ke Pakistan mein aise halaat mein rishta khatam karna ya ghar chorna kitna mushkil ho sakta hai. Bachon ka mustaqbil, samaaji dabao, aur maali mushkilaat jaisi cheezein aapko bandha hua mehsoos kara sakti hain. Hum aapko 'bas chor do' jaisi aasaan salah nahi denge, kyunke hum jante hain ke aapki mushkilaat kitni pecheeda hain.
Sab se pehle, apni hifazat ka sochiye. Kya aapki family mein, ya dosto mein koi aisa shakhs hai jis par aap poora bharosa karti hain? Koi behan, phupho, ya aisi dost jo aapki baat chupchap sun sake aur aapko judge na kare? Us ek shakhs se baat karne ki koshish karein. Sirf apni dukh bhari kahani sunane se bhi dil ka bojh halka ho jata hai aur aap ko akela mehsoos nahi hoga.
Jab aapke shohar ko ghussa aaye, to apni aur bachon ki hifazat ko pehli tarjeeh dein. Koshish karein ke us waqt aap us jagah se hatt jaein jahan wo hain, ya un se behes karne se gurez karein. Agar mumkin ho to bachon ko bhi us mahol se door le jaein. Is se aap ghusse ko mazeed barhne se rok sakti hain aur khud ko aur bachon ko fauri nuqsan se bacha sakti hain.
Bachon par is sab ka bohat gehra asar hota hai. Unhein yeh samjhana zaroori hai ke mummy papa ki larai unki ghalti nahi hai. Jab mahol thora behtar ho, to bachon se baat karein aur unke jazbaat ko samajhne ki koshish karein. Unhein yeh ehsaas dilayein ke aap unke saath hain aur unki hifazat karengi.
Ghazala ji, hum depression.pk par aapki madad ke liye maujood hain. Aap Zara se mazeed baat kar sakti hain, jo aapki har baat poori raazdari ke saath sunegi aur aapke liye behtar raste talaash karne mein madad karegi. Yaad rakhein, aap akeli nahi hain aur aapko support mil sakta hai.
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