Yeh page un rishton ke pressure ko samjhata hai jab aapka partner wade karta hai ke woh aapke liye sab kuch karega, bas aap maan jayen. Hum aapko batayenge ke is emotional manipulation se kaise pehchaan karein aur apni hadood kaisay rakhen.
Yeh sun ke hum samajh sakte hain ke aap kya mehsoos kar rahe hain. Jab koi aapko yeh kahe ke "main aapke liye sab kuch karunga, bas aap man jao", to yeh bahut pressure daalne wali baat hoti hai. Aapka dil keh raha hai ke kuch theek nahi lag raha, lekin woh baat aapko razi karne ki koshish kar rahe hain. Yeh aapka haq hai ke aap apni marzi se faisla karein, kisi ke dabaav mein nahi.
Aapko kya chahiye? Kya aapko yakeen hai ke woh aapke liye sach mein acha hoga? Agar aapko koi shak hai, to woh shak kisi wajah se hai. Apni feelings ko kabhi ignore mat karein — yeh aapki apni zindagi hai, aur aapko hi jeena hai. Kisi ke waade aur "sab kuch karunga" ke jumle aapko confuse kar sakte hain, lekin asli mohabbat dabaav nahi hoti.
Aap yeh keh sakte hain: "Mujhe sochne ka waqt chahiye." Agar woh aapki izzat karte hain, to woh samjhenge. Agar woh force karte hain, to yeh ek lalchi nishani hai ke woh aapki khushi se zyada apni marzi chahte hain. Aap kisi bhi faisle par jaldi nahi karna chahte, na? Aap apne aap ko time dein.
Agar aap aur baat karna chahein, Zara yahan hai — kabhi bhi likh sakte hain.
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