Agar aap larkiyon ki taraf jazbaat mehsoos karti hain aur society ya mardon se juday tajurbay aap ko confuse ya akela kar rahe hain, to yeh page aap ki madad karega. Is mein crushes, overthinking, apni attraction ko badalne ki koshish aur mehfooz tareeqay se madad lene par baat hogi.
Aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, yeh bilkul asli aur samajhne wali baat hai. Larkiyon ki taraf jazbaat hona koi ghalat cheez nahi, lekin society ka pressure aur apne andar ka conflict aapko confused aur akeli mehsoos kara sakta hai. Pehla kaam yeh hai ke aap yeh na sochein ke aapko apni attraction change karni chahiye - aisa karne ki koshish aapko aur zyada pareshan karegi, kyunki dil ki baat force nahi hoti. Aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain, usko samajhna aur accept karna behtar hai, chahe society kuch bhi kahe.
Attraction ek natural cheez hai, aur iska koi "sahi" ya "ghalat" version nahi hota. Mardon se nafrat shayad kisi personal experience ya pressure ki wajah se hai, lekin yeh alag masla hai. Jo cheez aap mehsoos kar rahi hain - larkiyon ki taraf attraction - yeh aapki identity ka hissa hai. Isse badalne ki koshish karna aapko aur thakayega. Yeh sach mein mushkil hai, lekin koshish karein ke logon ke kehne se zyada apne dil ki sunein. Kisi trusted dost ya counselor se baat karein jo aapko samjhe, na ke judge kare.
Crushes aur overthinking dono aapas mein jude hote hain. Jab aap apne jazbaaton ko dabaane lagti hain, toh dimaag unhe zyada ghoomata hai. Yahan kuch kaam ki tips hain:
Aapki feelings aapki hain, aur unka hona bilkul okay hai. Society change ho rahi hai lekin waqt lagta hai - tab tak apne aap ko samjhein aur akelapan kam karne ke liye un logon se milti rahein jo aapko accept karte hain. Zaroorat ho to Zara se baat karein, woh aapke liye yahan hai.
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