Jab ammi har kisi ka khayal rakhti hain lekin aap ko lagta hai ke woh aap ka nahi rakhtin, to yeh ehsaas bohat takleef deh ho sakta hai. Yeh page is ehsaas ke mumkina asbaab, apni baat share karne ka tareeqa aur Pakistani ghar mein madad lene ke options samjhata hai.
Aisa is liye lag sakta hai ke aap ki ammi ne sab ka zimma apne sar le rakha hai. Ghar mein maaon se yehi umeed ki jati hai, aur kuch log purani aadat, zimmedari ya tension ki wajah se khud ko rokte nahi. Lekin un ka sab ka khayal rakhna yeh zaroori nahi ke woh aap ka khayal nahi rakhtin.
Agar asal baat yeh hai ke aap ko lagta hai woh aap ko tawajjo nahi detin, to un se shant waqt mein kehain: “Ammi, kal jab main baat kar raha tha aur aap doosre kaam mein lag gain, mujhe bura laga. Mujhe aap ke saath thora waqt chahiye.” Is se ilzaam ke bajaye aap ki zaroorat saaf ho jati hai.
Agar woh sirf thak kar bhi sab sambhal rahi hain, to un se poochain ke aap koi ek kaam zimma le sakte hain. Pehle yeh dekhein ke woh baat sun kar kya jawab deti hain; phir faisla karein ke masla waqt ki kami hai, aap ki umeedon ka, ya ammi ka khud ko bilkul na sambhalna.
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