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Answered 21 September 2026 at 11:46 pm PKT

Main ne neend ki kami mein apni cousin ko kuch bura keh diya aur ab mujhe bohat afsos aur darr hai ke wo baat ghar mein bata kar meri reputation kharab kar de. Kya mujhe us ki maa se alag se baat karni chahiye, ya bas usay space de kar maafi maangni chahiye?

Sab se pehle usi cousin se alag mein maafi maangein, us ki maa se pehle nahi. Agar aap seedha un ke paas jayenge to cousin ko lag sakta hai ke aap un ki baat ko side-line kar rahay hain ya family ko apne favor mein kar rahay hain. Pehle thori neend poori kar lein, phir aaj ya kal private tareeqay se baat kar lein.

Yeh keh saktay hain: “Main ne jo kaha woh ghalat tha. Neend ki kami ki wajah se mera control kharab tha, lekin yeh koi uzr nahi. Mujhe afsos hai ke main ne aap ko takleef di. Aap ko space chahiye to main respect karunga/gi.”

Maafi mein ye shart na lagayen ke woh foran maaf karein ya ghar mein na batayen. Agar baat bohat zyada takleef deh thi ya mamla barh raha hai, tab kisi samajhdar ghar ke fard se madad lein—behtar hai cousin ki marzi se. Us ki maa se baat sirf mamla suljhanay ke liye ho, unhen cousin ke khilaf apni safai dene ke liye nahi.

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