Aap ki takleef ko hum samajhte hain. Yahan hum shohar ki doosri shadi aur talaq ki dhamki ke jazbaati aur qanooni pehluon par baat karenge.
Aap ne suna hua bahut bara sadma hai, aur yeh kehna bilkul sahi hai ke yeh dard aur thakaan asli hai. Yeh sach mein mushkil waqt hai, aur aap ka dil tootna aur aap ka zehen pareshan hona bilkul samajh aata hai. Aap ne apni wafadari par kai saal guzaare, aur yeh jaanna ke woh wafadari aap ko wapas nahi mili, kisi bhi aurat ke liye bojh uthana mushkil hai.
Sab se pehle, aap ne yeh jo kaha ke aap apni maan ke ghar hain aur safe hain, yeh bohat ahem hai. Aap ki apni jagah aur suroorat ka khayal rakhna sab se zaroori hai. Ab aap ke paas ek ahem faisla karna hai, aur is faisle mein aap ko akela nahi hona chahiye.
Is waqt aap ka emotional aur physical dono taraf ka khayal rakhiye. Neend, khana, aur saans lene ka sahi tareeqa — yeh sab pehle lagta hai, lekin yeh aap ko taqat deta hai. Agar aap neend nahi le rahi hain, toh thakaan aur zyada badh jaati hai. Rozana thodi der ke liye bhi, chahay woh 10 minute hi ho, apne liye waqt nikaliye — koi kitaab, koi pasandida kaam, ya bas khamoshi se baithna.
Aap ke shohar ki baat ka matlab yeh nahi ke aap ki qadr kam hai. Lekin is waqt aap ko apne haqooq ka pata hona zaroori hai. Pakistan mein talaq aur doosri shadi ke qawaneen hain, aur aap ko kisi aise wakil se raabta karna chahiye jo aap ko sahi mashwara de. Yeh aap ki izzat aur aap ke mustaqbil ke liye zaroori hai. Apni maan ya kisi bharosemand rishtedaar se baat karein, aur un se keh kar kisi legal madad ka intezaam karein. Yeh aap ki himmat ka hissa hai, koi sharm ki baat nahi.
Aap ne apni wafadari ka poora hisaab diya, lekin ab aap ko apne aap se poochna hai ke aap kya chahti hain. Kya aap is rishte ko khatam karna chahti hain, ya koi aur raasta hai? Yeh faisla aap ka hai, aur is mein aap ki marzi sab se ahem hai. Aap ki takleef ka matlab yeh nahi ke aap kamzor hain — iska matlab hai ke aap insaan hain. Apne dil ki suniye, aur agar aap ko lage ke koi baat samajh nahi aa rahi, toh kisi psychologist ya counsellor se baat karne mein koi burai nahi. Depression.pk par aap ko professional madad mil sakti hai, aur woh aap ki baat sunnay ke liye tayyar hain.
Yeh waqt guzar jayega, inshallah. Aap ki himmat aur sabr aap ko is andheri raat se nikal legi. Aap akeli nahi hain — aap ki maan, aap ke dost, aur yeh service aap ke saath hain. Zara se baat karein jab bhi dil kare, woh aap ki baat sunne ke liye yahan hai.
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