Agar aapko lagta hai ke aapka boyfriend aapko kisi aur ke liye chhod dega, aur breakup ke baad bhi confused signals de raha hai, to yeh page aapke liye hai. Hum dekhenge ke apni value kaise samjhein aur khud ko kaise theek karein.
Yeh sach mein mushkil hai. Aap insecure feel karti hain aur confused signals dekh kar aur bhi tension hoti hai. Lekin sabse pehle yeh samajhna zaroori hai ke aapki value kisi ek rishtay se nahi banti. Aap ka apna wujood hai, apni soch hai, apni zindagi hai — aur woh kisi ke jaane ya rehne se kam nahi hoti. Agar woh door ja raha hai lekin block nahi kar raha, toh yeh uski confusion hai, aapki nahi. Aap khud ko theek kar sakti hain, lekin iske liye apni taraf dekhma hoga, uski taraf nahi.
Jab tak aap khud ko nahi samjhengi ke aap kya hain, tab tak koi aur aapko woh value nahi de sakta. Is waqt aap jo mehsoos kar rahi hain — dar, kamzori, uski tawajjo ki bhook — yeh sab insaani hain, lekin inhe apne upar haavi na hone dein. Apne aap se poochhein: “Agar woh kal chala bhi jaye, toh kya main apni zindagi mein kuch achi cheezon ke liye nahi hoon?” Jawab haan hai. Apni hobbies, dost, kaam ya padhai mein waqt lagayein. Jab aap apne liye kuch kar rahi hain, toh uska andaaz bhi badal jayega.
Ek baat yaad rakhein: aap is waqt apne aap ko kho rahi hain, kisi aur ko nahi. Agar aap apne andar wapas aayengi, toh jo bhi rishta ho, woh sahih ho ya nahi, aap theek rahengi. Agar zaroorat ho toh Zara se baat karein — woh yahan hai, aapki taraf hai.
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