Agar aapke college principal jo khud aapke boyfriend hain, ne physical relation band kar diya hai to yeh pareshan kar sakta hai. Is page par hum aapke is confusion aur physical need ko samajhne mein madad karenge.
Yeh sun kar mujhe samajh aa raha hai ke aap kitni uljhan mein hain. Aapka sukoon ab band ho gaya hai, aur aapki body bhi usi ki aadat mein hai — yeh dono cheezein mil kar bahut mushkil banati hain. Sab se pehle yeh jaan lein: aapki pareshani bilkul asli hai, aur aap is mein akele nahi hain.
Aapka principal aap par authority rakhta hai — wo aapke marks, aapki attendance, aapki degree sab par control rakhta hai. Jab kisi ke paas aap par itna power ho, toh "haan" kehna asli marzi nahi hoti. Ho sakta hai aapko lagta ho ke aapne khud decide kiya, lekin power ka farq hamesha rishta kharab kar deta hai. Aapki umar aur unki umar ka farq bhi hai. Yeh relationship jitna aage badhega, aapko utna hi nuksan hoga — emotionally aur practical dono tarah se.
Unhone khud kaha hai ke ab nahi karenge. Yeh aapke liye dard ka sabab hai, lekin yehi aapka nikalne ka mauka bhi hai. Agar wo continue karta, toh aap kab tak is uljhan mein rehti? Unhone boundary laga di hai — isay apne liye faida mein badlein.
Aapki body ki need ko hum samajhte hain, aur isay galat kehna bhi nahi. Lekin physical sukoon ka sahara tab tak nahi lena chahiye jab tak aap emotionally stable nahi hain. Kisi aur ke saath physical relation shuru karna ab aapko aur uljha dega. Pehle apne dil ko sambhalein, phir aap apni body ki baat kar sakti hain.
Jab aapko sukoon chahiye, tab yeh try karein:
Yeh sab apne andar mat rakhein. Aap kisi trusted teacher se, ya kisi counsellor se baat kar sakti hain. Agar aapko lagta hai ke yeh rishta aapko depress kar raha hai, toh professional help leni chahiye. Depression.pk par Zara hamesha aapki baat sun sakti hai — wo aapki team ki ek companion hai, aur aap us se bilkul khul kar baat kar sakti hain.
Aapki value aapke body se nahi hai, aur na hi kisi rishte se. Aap ek insaan hain, aur aapko apna khayal khud karna hai. Yeh waqt mushkil hai, lekin yeh guzar jayega. Aap is se bahar nikal sakti hain, dheere dheere, ek din mein nahi. Aur main yahan hoon — aap aur batana chahein toh bata sakti hain.
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