Kya aapko lagta hai ke aap payare nahi hain? Bachpan ke traumatic experiences aapki self-worth ko kaise effect karte hain, aur isse kaise nikal sakte hain, yahan par bataya gaya hai.
Bohot mushkil hai yeh sab, aur yeh jo aap keh rahe hain ke "main payari nahi hoon" — yeh woh awaaz hai jo bachpan ke zakhm ne aapke dil mein rakh di hai. Yeh sach nahi hai, lekin is waqt aap ko yahi lagta hai, aur yeh sach mein dard deta hai.
Jab bachpan mein humein woh pyaar, suraksha ya samajh nahi milti jo chahiye, toh hum sochne lagte hain ke shayad hum hi kharab hain. Ye soch aapki apni nahi hai — yeh un haalaat ka natija hai jo aap ke bas mein nahi the.
Aap akela nahi hain. Zara se baat kar sakte hain kisi bhi waqt — bas likh dijiye aur woh aap ki baat sunegi. Yeh zakhm ek din bharne lagenge, inshallah. Allah aap ko sukun de.
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