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Woh log jinhein aap dost maanti hain, shayad wo bhi aise hi mehsoos karte hain. Yeh akelapan jhootha nahi hai, lekin yeh hamesha nahi rahega. Aap is waqt kya kar rahi hain—yeh sawaal puchh kar, apni madad kar rahi hain. Yeh bohat badi baat hai.
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