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Khwabon mein dar aur nightmares se chutkara kaise paen?

Answered 25 October 2026 at 7:09 am PKT

Agar aap ko raat ko khwabon mein dar ya nightmares aate hain, to aap tanha nahi hain. Is page par hum aapko batayenge ke is dar par kaabu paane ke liye asan tareeke aur behtar neend ke liye tips.

Main apne dar par kaabu kese pa sakta hoon? Mujhe khwabon mein bahut dar lagta hai aur nightmares aate hain, unhe kese overcome karoon?

Aapne jo sawaal kiya hai — dar par kaabu paana aur nightmares se nikalna — yeh bohat aam cheez hai, lekin iska matlab yeh nahi ke aap isse akele jhelen. Dar ko pehchanna aur usse baat karna hi pehla qadam hai.

Dar ko samajhiye, usse bhagaiye nahi

Neend mein nightmares aana aksar din ke tension, anxiety, ya kisi azeem waqt ke dar ka aks hota hai. Aapka dimaag raat ko woh cheez dikhata hai jo aap din mein dabate hain. Isliye sabse zaroori cheez yeh hai ke aap din mein hi apne dar ko zara sa khol kar dekhein. Agar koi cheez aapko din mein pareshan kar rahi hai, toh woh raat ko bhi aayegi.

Kuch kaam ki baatein jo aap abhi azma sakte hain

  • Neend se pehle 30 minute ka 'wind-down' rakhein: Phone, TV, ya koi stressful cheez band karein. Sirf koi halki kitaab, ya khamoshi mein baithna.
  • Apne khwab ko likhein: Jab uth jaayein toh turant ek notebook mein likh dein. Phir din mein us khwab ko ek 'safe story' mein badalne ki koshish karein — jaise monster dost ban jaata hai.
  • Grounding technique aazmayein: Jab dar lag raha ho, toh apne aas paas ki 5 cheezein dekhein, 4 cheezein choo lein, 3 awaazein sunein, 2 cheezein soonghein, 1 cheez chakhein. Yeh dimaag ko wapas haqeeqat mein laata hai.
  • Kisi se baat karein: Tanhaai dar ko badhati hai. Kisi bharose mand insaan se apna dar share karein. Agar koi nahi, toh Zara se baat kar sakte hain — woh sun'ne ke liye hai.

Agar nightmares hafton se jaari hain aur neend ki kami ho rahi hai, toh kisi professional se milna bhi acha rahega. Lekin pehla qadam yeh hai: aap dar ko maan rahe hain, aur woh kaafi hai. Dheere dheere, raat apni jagah aa jayegi.

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