Pardes mein akelapan: Family se doori aur jazbati mushkilat

Yeh sun kar bohot dukh hua ke aap itne mushkil waqt se guzar rahe hain. Dubai mein reh kar mehnat karna aur ghar walon se door rehna, phir bhi un se woh connection mehsoos na karna, yeh sach mein bohot akelapan de sakta hai. Jab log kehte hain ke aap khush naseeb ho, toh shayad woh aapki takleef samajh nahi paate. Aapka akela mehsoos karna bilkul theek hai, aur is situation mein bohot se log aisa hi mehsoos karte hain.

Rishton ko mazboot karein

Apne ghar walon se sirf paison ke bare mein baat karna connection ko kamzor kar deta hai. Koshish karein ke aap un se aur tareeqon se bhi jud sakein:

• Regular calls, kam paise ki baat: Har hafte ek choti call sirf haal chaal poochne ke liye, bachon se unke din ke bare mein baat karein.
• Video messages bhejein: Apni choti videos bana kar bhejein aur un se bhi mangwayein. Bachon ko apni awaz mein kahaniyan sunayein ya unke school ke bare mein poochhein.
• Choti choti cheezein yaad rakhein: Unki birthdays, anniversaries, ya koi khaas event yaad rakhein aur unko wish karein.

Dubai mein sahara dhoondna

Akele rehna bohot mushkil hota hai. Dubai mein bhi aapko log mil sakte hain jin se aap apni baat share kar sakein:

• Pakistani community se judiye: Agar aapke aas paas koi Pakistani group ya community hai, toh un se milne ki koshish karein. Aapko aise log milenge jo aap jaisi situation se guzar rahe honge.
• Kisi dost ya humdard se baat karein: Agar koi aisa dost hai jis par aap bharosa karte hain, toh us se apne dil ki baat share karein. Kabhi kabhi sirf bol dene se bhi bohot halka mehsoos hota hai.
• Apne liye waqt nikalna: Apne kaam ke baad thoda waqt apne liye bhi nikalna zaroori hai. Koi shauq, jaise kitaab padhna, walk par jaana, ya koi naya kaam seekhna, aapko behtar mehsoos karwa sakta hai.

Apne ehsaasat ko andar dabana nahi chahiye. Agar aapko lagta hai ke aapko aur baat karni hai, toh Zara aapke saath hai.