Is page par hum samjhenge ke shohar ke silent treatment aur kamzoor emotional bond ko kaise behtar banaya jaye. Aapke rishte mein mohabbat aur samajh laane ke asaan tareeqe yahan diye gaye hain.
Yeh mushkil hai, aap. Aur yeh aapki fault nahi. Sab se pehla, samjh lo ke yeh aapki koshish ke baware nahi hai. Aap ke saath zyada samajhdari se baat karne mein mushkil hai, iska matlab yeh nahi ke aap kuch galat kar rahi hain.
Pehla step yeh hai ke aap apne aap ko samajhain. Aap kaise mahsoos kar rahi hain? Aap kya chahte hain apne rishtay se? Agar aapko lagta hai ke aapka shohar aapki feelings ko ignore kar raha hai, toh yeh bhi ek waqia hai jo aapko samajhna zaroori hai.
Aap donon ke beech communication ko improve karne ki koshish karain. Baatein karne ka waqt chuno jab aap donon relax hain. Shohar se baat karte waqt, straight points par rahein. Har ek cheez ko detail se samjhao, aur usse samjhne ka mauka dena. Agar woh silent treatment deta hai, toh aap bhi usse space do, lekin phir bhi usse samjhao ke aap unse baat karna chahte hain.
Agar yeh mushkil zyada time se chal rahi hai aur aapko lagta hai ke aap donon khud se nahi nikaal sakte, toh kisi professional counselor ya psychiatrist ke paas jana ek achha idea ho sakta hai. Yehnu samajh lo ke yeh koi sharm ki baat nahi. Har ek couple ke paas apni challenges hoti hain, aur professional madad lena ek smart decision ho sakta hai.
Aap ke saath yeh hai, aur aap yeh samajh lo ke aapki feelings valid hain. Insaan bhi insaan hoti hai, aur har ek ko support ki zarurat hoti hai.
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