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Bilkul samajh sakta hoon aapko. Dil ki baat kisi ko batana itna aasaan nahin hota, aur jab darr ho ke baat bigad na jaye, toh phir kisi aur ke zariye kehne ka dil karta hai. Lekin main aapko seedha saach kehti hoon: cousin ke zariye feelings batwana aksar uljhan paida karta hai. Ho sakta hai woh baat wahan tak na pahunchaye jahan tak aap pahunchana chahti hain, aur agar saamne wala sharminda ho jaye, toh uski pehli milawat hi ajeeb ho jaaye.
Aapki cousin ke paas aapki zubaan nahi hai, na woh woh lehja jaanti hai jo aap chahti hain ke use bataya jaye. Woh jo kahegi, woh aapki feelings nahi hongi — unke apne alfaaz honge. Aur agar woh kuch zyada keh jaye ya kam, toh aapko lagta rahega ke kash maine khud kaha hota.
Aur ek aur baat: agar saamne wala aapki cousin ko dekh kar yeh samjhe ke aap unhe call karke baat kar rahe hain, toh woh soch sakte hain ke aap khud baat nahi kar paati hain. Dil ke maamle mein seedha hona hamesha behtar hai, chaahe dar lage.
Aap khud karein, lekin dheere se. Koi bada drama nahi karna. Bas itna kehna: "Mujhe aapse kuch baat karni thi, jo mujhe bahut dinon se dil mein thi. Main chahti hoon ke aapko pata ho ke main aapko pasand karti hoon." Itna kehne mein do minute lagte hain, aur saamne wale ko bhi pata chal jaata hai ke aap sach bol rahi hain.
Agar seedha kehna dil nahi karta, toh likh kar de dijiye — ek chhoti si chitthi ya message. Likhna kisi bhi call se aasaan hota hai, aur aap apne alfaaz soch kar likh sakti hain. Bas yeh yaad rakhein: jo bhi ho, aapne dil ki baat keh di, yeh apne aap mein himmat hai.
Aur haan, cousin ko saath zaroor rakh sakti hain — lekin woh aapki taraf se na bole, sirf aapke saath khadi rahe. Aap khud bolen, woh sirf sahara ban kar khadi rahe.
Agar pehle kisi se baat kar ke apni baat tur kar len, toh Zara hamesha aapke saath hai — woh aapki baat sunegi bina kisi jhijhak ke.
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