Baap ke inteqal ke baad mama ka badla hua rawaiya aap ko unsafe, unwanted aur confused mehsoos kara sakta hai. Yeh page ghar mein safety, shadi ke faislay, boundaries aur khushi ki umeed ke bare mein practical madad deta hai.
Haan, aap phir khushi mehsoos kar sakti hain. Papa ke janay ka gham aur mama ka badla rawaiya aap ko akela aur unwanted mehsoos karwa sakta hai, lekin un ka rawaiya aap ki ahmiyat nahi batata.
Sab se pehle aap ki hifazat zaroori hai. Jab aap kehti hain ke “kuch bura ho jayega,” to kya wahan dhamki, maar peet, zabardasti, ya shaadi se rokne ka dabao hai? Agar haan, kisi bharosemand rishtedar ko saaf batayein aur apne partner ke saath rehne, guzaray aur zaroorat par ghar badalne ka intezam karein. Khatra fori ho to akele na rahein aur qareeb tareen emergency services se madad lein.
Shaadi ka faisla aur mama ke ghar rehna alag maslay hain. Pehle apne liye mehfooz mahol banayein, phir partner se saaf baat karein ke aap ko kis tarah ke saharray ki zaroorat hai. Gham pehle bohat bhari lagta hai, magar khushi chhotay lamhon mein wapis aati hai. Agar aap bata sakti hain ke “kuch bura” se aap ka kya matlab hai, to hum agla qadam saath soch sakte hain.
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