Bhai ka accident mein intiqal ho jana aik bohat gehra sadma hai, aur aapka yeh ehsas ke aap andar se toot chuke hain bilkul qudrati hai. Jab aap khud itne dard mein hon, to doosron ko sahara dena aur bhi mushkil lag sakta hai, lekin yeh mumkin hai.
Bilal bhai, hum samajh sakte hain ke aap kis takleef se guzar rahe hain. Apne chote bhai ko kho dena, woh bhi is tarah achanak, aik bohat bara zakhm hai. Aapka dil toot gaya hai, aur yeh bilkul sahi hai. Aapko yeh yaad rakhna chahiye ke aapka gham bhi utna hi haqeeqi aur zaroori hai jitna unke walidain, biwi aur bachon ka. Apne dard ko mehsoos karne ki ijazat den, kyunki gham ko dabana usay kam nahi karta.
Aapko pehle khud ko thora sambhalne ki zaroorat hai. Zaroori nahi ke aap abhi se sabke liye mazboot ban jayen. Aik din mein aik qadam uthayen. Koi aisa rishtedar ya dost jo aap par bharosa karte hain, usse apne dil ki baat karein. Yeh sirf sunne ke liye ho sakta hai, koi masla hal karne ke liye nahi. Apne liye chand minute nikal kar gussa, afsos, ya ansoo bahane den. Yeh aapko thora sa halka mehsoos karne mein madad dega.
Jab aap doosron ko sahara dene ki baat karte hain, to iska matlab yeh nahi ke aapko unke sab masail hal karne hain ya har waqt himmat dikhani hai. Kabhi kabhi sirf unke paas baithna, unki baat sunna, aur unke saath aansoo bahana hi sabse bari madad hoti hai. Apni takleef mein bhi, aap unke saath apke bhai ki achi yaadein taaza kar sakte hain, unke qisse sun kar unko hansa sakte hain, ya sirf unko yeh ehsas dila sakte hain ke woh akele nahi hain.
Chote chote tareeqon se madad karein. Ho sakta hai aap unki biwi ke liye khana banane mein madad kar dein, ya bachon ko thori der ke liye sambhal lein jab woh ro rahe hon. Mil kar dua karein. Yeh chote chote amal hi hain jo gham ke is waqt mein sabse zyada qeemti hote hain. Aapko yeh sab kuch akele karne ki zaroorat nahi. Apne khandan ke doosre afraad se bhi madad maangein, taake zimmedariyan bant saken.
Gham aik lamba safar hai, Bilal bhai. Iski koi waqt ki had nahi hoti, aur har koi apne tareeqe se is se guzarta hai. Khud par aur apne ghar walon par sabr rakhein. Jab aapko lage ke aap bilkul thak chuke hain, tab bhi yaad rakhein ke aap jo kar rahe hain woh bohat himmat ka kaam hai. Apne bhai ki yaadon ko dil mein zinda rakhein, aur aik doosre ka sahara ban kar is mushkil waqt se guzarne ki koshish karein.
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