Jab zindagi mein achanak koi bara badlav aata hai, khaas kar job jaane jaisa, toh apni value par sawal uthna bohat fitri baat hai. Hum samajhte hain aap is waqt kaisa mehsoos kar rahe hain, aur aap akele nahi hain.
Junaid sahib, itne saalon baad job chali jaana aik bohat bara dhachka hai, aur yeh ehsaas hona ke aap kisi kaam ke nahi rahe, yeh bilkul qabil-e-fehm hai. Lekin, aapki qadar aapke kaam se nahi hai; aapki qadar aapki zaat mein hai, us tajarbe mein hai jo aapne itne saalon mein haasil kiya hai, aur un rishton mein hai jo aapne banaye hain.
Aapne apni zindagi ke itne saal kisi jagah diye hain, aur is dauran aapne bohat kuch seekha aur kiya hoga. Kabhi kabhi hum apna kaam chorrne ke baad un tamam khoobiyon ko bhool jaate hain jo hum mein mojood hoti hain. Thora waqt nikal kar un cheezon ko yaad karein jin mein aap ache thay, jo kaam aap khushi se karte thay, ya woh skills jo aapne job par seekhi theen.
Is mushkil waqt mein, chote chote qadam uthana bohat madad deta hai. Apne din ka aik chota sa schedule banayein, jismein aisi cheezein shamil hon jinhein aap poora kar saken, chahe woh ghar ka koi kaam ho, ya apni sehat ka khayal rakhna. Jab aap chote maqasid poore karte hain, toh aapko apni qabiliyat par dobara yaqeen aana shuru ho jata hai.
Apne pyaron ke sath waqt guzarein. Doston aur rishtedaaron se baat karein jin par aap bharosa karte hain aur jo aapko support karte hain. Unke sath rehna aapko akelapan mehsoos karne se bachayega aur aapko yaad dilayega ke aap unke liye kitne qeemti hain, chahe aapka koi bhi kaam na ho.
Aapke paas ab waqt hai kuch naya seekhne ka ya kisi purane shauq ko dobara zinda karne ka. Ho sakta hai koi aisi skill ho jo aap hamesha seekhna chahte thay, ya koi aisa kaam jo aapko khushi deta ho. Jab aap kuch naya seekhte hain ya apni pasand ka kaam karte hain, toh aapko apni zaati tarraqi aur qabiliyat ka ehsaas hota hai, jo self-esteem ko behtar banata hai.
Yaad rakhiye, yeh waqti daur hai. Aapki job chali gayi hai, aapki zaati qadar nahi. Apne aap par narmi rakhiye, aur is waqt ko apni shakhsiyat ke doosre pehluon ko explore karne ka mauqa samjhiye. Aapki qabiliyat sirf aik job tak mehdood nahi hai.
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