Agar aap apne skin tone ya rang ki wajah se kisi rishtay, mohabbat ya dosti ke liye khud ko kam samajh rahe hain, to yeh ehsaas bohat takleef deh ho sakta hai. Yeh page rang aur khubsurti ke samaji dabao ko samajhne, khud ki qadar mazboot karne aur rejection ke darr ka samna karne mein madad karega.
Aap ka rang yeh tay nahi karta ke aap kisi ke liye kaafi hain ya nahi. Aap sirf aap ka skin tone nahi hain—rang-parasti ki wajah se aisa mehsoos hona fahmida hai, lekin yeh baat sach nahi.
Jab yeh darr ubhre, khud se kahein: “Mera rang meri worth nahi hai.” Phir dekhein ke saamne wala shakhs aap ki izzat karta hai ya nahi. Jo shakhs sirf rang ki bunyad par aap ko kam samjhe, us ka faisla aap ki haqeeqat nahi.
Apni qeemat kisi ek ki pasand ya na-pasand par mat rakhiye. Aap ke saath woh log ahem hain jo aap ko mukammal insaan samajh kar respect karte hain.
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