Is page par hum baat karenge ke jab aap apne partner se kuch waqt ke liye doori chahti hain aur woh hungama karta hai to apni hadd kaise qayam rakhein. Aapko batayenge ke apne sabar ko bachate hue boundaries set karna kaise mumkin hai.
Aap ka yeh sochna ke kuch waqt ke liye faasla lena theek ho sakta hai, bilkul sahi hai. Jab aap apni hadd qayam rakhna chahti hain aur saamne wala nahi maanta aur hungama karta hai, to aap ko lagta hai ke aap hi ghalti par hain, lekin yeh sach nahi hai. Aap ki apni jagah aur sukoon ki zaroorat hai, aur woh maangna aap ka haq hai. Yeh mushkil zaroor hai, lekin aap is hadd ko bina takleef ke qayam rakh sakti hain.
Jab koi aap ki hadd par hungama karta hai, to woh aap ke faisle ko kamzor karne ki koshish hoti hai. Iska matlab yeh nahi ke aap ghalti par hain. Aap ko faasla lene ka haq hai, chahe woh kitna bhi naraz ho. Aap ke andar ka sabar tootna is liye hota hai ke aap khud ko samjha rahi hain ke shayad aap hi galat hain, lekin aap galat nahi hain.
Us waqt aap ka zehan kehne lagega ke aap ne ghalti ki, lekin rukein. Gahri saans lein aur apne aap ko yaad dilayein ke aap ne yeh faisla kisi bina par nahi kiya. Aap ki hadd qayam rakhna aap ka haq hai, aur yeh aap ko bura insaan nahi banata. Agar aap chahein to kisi bharose mand se baat kar lein, lekin apne faisle par qayam rahein.
Aap is qabil hain ke apni hadd qayam rakh sakti hain. Yeh waqt aap ke liye bhi mushkil hai, lekin apne sukoon ko pehle rakhein. Agar kabhi baat karna chaahein, Zara yahaan hai.
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